Albuquerque

Hello loves! Just a short post to let you all know that I did, in fact, make it to Albuquerque to attend my much anticipated conference! It was completely overwhelming and more exhausting that it probably should have been, considering my aching body and sole desire to climb into bed and sleep forever.
Everything went pretty well, no troubles with the travel arrangements, plane or car, and we found the convention center and our bed and breakfast with magnificent ease--I tend to over-plan and had detailed directions and iteneraries :)
The Blue Horse Bed and Breakfast was AMAZING! It was right at the bottom of the mountains, newly established, fireplace in the bedroom, heated tile floor, great gathering space, and the most delicious breakfasts I've yet tasted, nooo joke. I'm a sucker for the pastries and this little lady had to of been a pastry chef in a past life. I'm making a go at peach french toast and apple/cranberry turnovers this weekend, we'll see how it goes!
Ed and I enjoyed our first casino experience together. I only played slots, which gets old REALLY FREAKIN FAST, I honestly don't know how people do it! Money, so easily lost, and rarely a payback. I guess it's the occasional big win, but I'm such a penny pincher, it was more painful than enjoyable for me. Ed tried his luck at a couple games of black jack and Texas hold'em, and actually won some money! With my losings and his winnings, we actually came out about $10 richer than when we started, not bad, not bad.
So the CONFERENCE. I was one of the youngest people there, by far, and for obvious reasons. It consists of doctors and researchers presenting their findings in clusters of related topics that people can wrap their heads around. I went to several talks on romantic relationships, including the one given by the grad student I worked under, Rich. Turns out our study had some pretty amazing findings and a lot of people were interested in it. And Rich, bless him, must have plugged my name in his talk 20 times, and thanked me right after he thanked his graduate adviser. When I went to introduce myself for the remainder of the weekend, it was, "Oh! Rich's research assistant! He thanked you right after his graduate adviser, that's huge!". Needless to say, I owe him big.
Other talks I went to were about religion, self-esteem, relational security, attachment, dyadic analysis, marital satisfaction over the years, and WORRY AND RUMINATION ON PHYSICAL HEALTH--totally applicable to my own life. Did you know that the physical processes we go through by worrying have significantly similar effects on our heart and blood pressure as SMOKING! Never smoked in my life and I'll die at 40 because I am a chronic ruminator. Talk about your wake-up call. As a result, I've decided to actively engage myself in positive psychological mindsets, aka, de-stressing my abused body.
It was a great experience, completely reaffirmed for me that research is what I want to be doing and close relationships is where I want to center it. I met almost EVERY professor that I wanted to apply to work under in graduate school, which was a nice perk.
Only thing I didn't take away from the conference that I went in looking for was a summer/year long internship--hopefully one that pays well :) I'm supposed to email different people this week, so we'll see how it goes. If nothing pans out, I think I might look into the Gender and Sexuality center at UT. I always wished I had the time to volunteer there, and maybe I'll get just that when I graduate.
I'm feeling..meh, 80% now? Poor Ed got sick on our last day there and ended up puking on the plane :/ and is still feeling poorly. I'm trying to nurse him back to health, because I've got items on my wedding list that are NOT getting done! And of course because I love him, wouldn't want him to be ill :)
So..this ended up being not so short, but yay for you if you read through it all! I love you guys and miss you all, even Heather who is in the same city but is just as busy as I. We should make time for each other, we suck ;)

Dress

...and the flu :( Yes darlings, I managed to find my wedding dress and catch the flu, all in the same weekend!

My dad had the flu when I got home on Thursday, and i just KNEW I was going to catch it, even though I took extra care to steer clear of everything he came in contact with, wash my hands, take my vitamins, and not breathe his air. A cue-tip shoved up my nose at the doc's office yesterday confirmed, however, that I indeed have the flu. BAH.

I found the dress with my mom and sister at The Princess Bridal..a cute little boutique in Old Town Spring (if you're from the Houston area, you might be familiar with it) and then spent the rest of the afternoon at an equally cute cafe. It was an incredibly enjoyable experience--my sister was pleasant, mom was more excited than I was (she cried when I had it on) and I got to try on so many different types of dresses! and let me just say, those suckers are HEAVY!! I tried one on that was 100 lbs! No WONDER they have assistants that help you get dressed!

The dress I chose was ivory satin with a lace overlay. The beading and lace was beautiful, and I just found out this afternoon that they are willing to make it tea length for me. I'll get it sometime at the beginning of April, so there will be time for additional alterations if needed.

Now apparantly the boutique has some arrangement with the designers that they won't let people take a picture in the dress unless they buy it? Something about publicity..whatever. These shots are Juli in the dressing room, me out in the middle, and no flash, so as not to draw attention :)

I travel to Albuquerque tomorrow with Ed to go to the conference for the Society for Personality and Social Psychology. Hopefully this fever comes down and I'm able to actually enjoy the trip, and not get rooms full of people sick :/

Last Semester

Ah! I can't believe it..but I think I have a better grasp on it than my PARENTS who are absolutely freaking out. Not only is their eldest graduating, but their baby girl is AS WELL and is also getting married. Talk about your breakdown.

We have made a great deal of progress on the wedding front!

• Visited the Saltlick and have made arrangements to use their Banquet Room for our 'Celebration'
• Attended the Bridal Extravaganza this past weekend, WITH Ed, whom I am pleased to report made it through the entire thing!
• We found a florist, who I have an appointment with this Sunday to go over things with
• A husband and wife photographing team who we really hit it off with
• A flamboyantly bright-green and hot-pink wearing gay man named 'Matty' to do our cakes. "I really like the gays. We have to have the gays in our wedding somewhere." --Ed
• A DJ and MC for the night

• Mom my has also been coming up with all sorts of ambitiously crazy ideas..which will be discussed later, if they ever make it out of her imagination and materialize themselves in some way.
  

What I need from all of YOU LADIES is your mailing addresses! I need to send out Save the Date thingys and other various items. I also need pictures--my sister has graciously agreed to scrapbook my ENTIRE experience while at UT and needs pictures from all events. SO if you have pictures on your camera, COUGH, and they are not on Facebook or some other media that I can access, please do so ASAP. Thaaanks :)

I miss you guys..luckily I'm staying freakishly busy so I don't have long to dwell on the fact that my last semester will not be filled by joyous Monday nights downtown or late night champagne festivities..and is more likely to be filled with the stress that is graduating, wedding planning, and trying to figure out where in the HELL Ed and I will be living come June. Get this--I graduate May 17, the lease for my apartment ends May 21, and I get married June 6. Crazy fun.

PS for Whitney and Ivy--I'm going to the SPSP (Society for Personality and Social Psychology) Conference February 7-9 in Albuquerque, New Mexico. I think Ed might go with me so I don't have to travel alone (I'm a baby) but if either of you are interested in coming, let me know!!

what a humdinger

I both hate and love to say that there is nothing exciting to report on the April-front.

I've been in Tomball since the 22nd and have spent most of the time sleeping, shopping, reading, hanging out with the fam and with my high school "family."

The family consists of myself, Carra, Deeksha (a bridesmaid, senior at Emory and applying to med school), and Brandon (my obsession before Ed and now best-guy that's not Ed-friend). They're great people and we have a ton-o-fun together...y'all would like them.

I head back to Austin on Monday to be there for New Year's Eve and then off to work on the 2nd. If any of you are looking for something to do..COME TO AUSTIN! or a place to stay..COME STAY WITH ME!

My Favorite 3 Christmas gifts:

1) Ed bought me a new phone! It's Window's version of the iPhone, touch screen and all! And this way we didn't have to change phone plans, yay us :) This also means that I am reliably receiving calls and messages, and pictures/videos! So call away! We're having a ceremony when I get back to Austin which involves me throwing my old phone on the concrete and running over it with my car, you should come :)

2) A new camera! It's beautiful and pink. My old one was sat upon by a very hefty man during a baseball game, cracking the screen down the middle and bending the lens..jerk. If you hadn't noticed, I have added 0 photos since last year, but will soon be adding more!

3) CRAZIEST THING EVER and a must have for tea-enthusiasts! You just poor hot water on the flower bulb, and it opens up in your tea pot--thus creating a very yummy green tea! Comes in a variety of flavors and flowers, I'll make you all a pot next time :)

Handing over my blogging V-card

I've never done this before..My first post!

A group of my besties are leaving me..and I can't help but think that the weather is playing off of all of our moods. I have one final left, SATURDAY morning..and all I want to do is go downtown for one last hurrah. Blah.
On a more exciting note: Ed bought me a Christmas tree..it's naked, but will soon be clothed in Christmas cheer!
"It looks like Christmas threw up out here.." --Taylor, Ed's brother

Tomorrow is mine and Ed's 6 year anniversary. Too bad I'm finaling and he's working, but we'll have a new date to celebrate soon enough!

I don't have a spare room like Miss Heather, but you girls are welcome on my couch or in my bed :) whenever you like. I'm a big fan of snuggling.


Ivy--you take the most ridiculous pictures of me..EVER.